EXIT to LOVE -Â New Transformational Book
Norwegian version published November 2023
We have never been as worried, stressed and in pain as we are today. The solution is from the inside out.
EXIT to LOVE provides more perspectives on resource optimization of people, and a more open talent economy. A book that inspires a change in leadership style (and personal style), working life and society. Discover the value of authentic self-leadership; a new form of comfort and deeper natural confidence. Useful for everyone, for all purposes - and, for all "walks of life".
The book is recommended for all levels and categories of managers, change leaders and change agents. If you, through words or actions, inspire others to dream more, be more, be on the way to becoming more - then you are also a leader. Managing your own thoughts and emotions is perhaps the most important skill all of us can have. Â Self-leadershipn is useful for everyone.
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>> Embrace Readyness to Empower Yourself or Someone You Love

Randi Næss -
Published Author
A book that inspires sustainable thinking and action. Which raises awareness of how we optimize our resources and discover more opportunities.
Head. Heart. Attitude.
Start the journey from being a good leader of the old, to a brave leader of the new.
Embrace Personal Leadershi
Become more aware of what you love to optimize your resources. Â
Become more aware of what you love to optimize your resources!
In this book you learn:Â
- How to become a sustainable change leader in your professional and personal life. Â
- How to embrace multiple layers of love and unravel the tangles of fear, to strengthen your leadership.
- How to strengthen the feminine qualities to promote a healthier balance and dynamic between the masculine and feminine. Â
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Buy this book as an empowering Christmas gift for yourself or someone you love.
This book is relevant to anyone who wants to move out of worry and stress and to enjoy work and life.
Become Comfortable in the Driving Seat of Your Own Life - for Own CareerÂ
New studies and debate in the Norwegian media autumn 2023 show that 1,500 police investigators are considering quitting their jobs due to work pressure. Other surveys show that 1 in 3 students live with mental disorders. After a doctor chose to take her own life summer of 2023 as a result of work pressure, there is a doctor's revolt - "Doctors want to live". For many, leadership has become suffering. More and more people want an experience of living more. The timing of this book appears more relevant than ever.
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, be on the way to becoming more - yes, then you are a leader.
Be inspired to take greater leadership in your own life!
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The Value of Reading this Book:Â
The book provides perspectives on the "commitment to the heart process", on the process FROM good leader of the old TO courageous leader of the new.
Gain insight and be inspired for a shift in how we define the leadership role.
Learn to manage thoughts and emotions. Emotions are about to go from non-topic to hot topic. It is important to pay attention to what we feel. It can provide important information. A relevant topic because we live in a society where many tend to suppress emotions. Discover how to "rock emotions" in an inspiring way.
Be inspired to develop characteristics and skills in line with the 5 new internal sustainability goals.
Strengthen your understanding, discover more angles, trends and tendencies for the working life of the future - inspired by studies from some of the largest consulting houses in the world.
Strengthen your learning mindset. EXIT-to-Love gives you an important reminder of what an adventurous journey of development life can be. It shows the way for what is possible in the face of challenges if we choose to face challenges with a learning mindset.
Get more perspectives on management on the way into a new management paradigm in the 21st century. Why it is important to be able to manage your own thoughts and feelings in cultures with hyper-rational analytical thinking and unbalanced thinking. Unlearning what we thought was the way to do it.
Gain a natural understanding of how emotions, heart, intuition and sensing are connected.
Discover the benefits of the authentic, how to take yourself to your next level of authenticity.
Update yourself on a number of relevant topics in today's working life such as; trust, fear, psychological safety, the value of the authentic, vulnerability, leadership, the parenting role in a time crunch, the masculine vs feminine qualities such as kindness, consideration, joy. The balance and dynamics between these. Important points are demonstrated through storytelling that engages the heart and inspires action.
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Be inspiered to live your life on purpose, with passion and spontanity.
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 Become the Change  - Change What Matter the Most
 The content in the book is aligned with the Inner Development Goals

Inner Development Goals
A number of academic partners, including Harvard University, has researched for 3 years and gathered around an initiative for faster sustainable progress.
The internal sustainability goals are now recognized by the European Parliament as an important framework for achieving the UN's sustainability goals by 2030.

Change What Matter Most
23 abilities, qualities or skills are divided into 5 categories, and considered to be crucial to develop (individually and collectively), if we are to come significantly closer to meeting the UN's sustainability goals. It is an acknowledgment that the sustainability challenges we see around us are the result of internal human crises.Â
We have never been as worried, stressed and in pain as we are today
Leaders and others do not have the capacity to drive change. Burnout is more prevalent than ever. Stress makes it harder for people to think new thoughts, be creative and innovative. Our ability to show care is reduced in such a state. Caring for ourselves, for the people around us and for the planet. Therefore, we must start with ourselves if we are to have a more sustainable world. "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World", Disney.
The solution is from the inside out!
Imagine this:
You wake up before the alarm and feel joy.
When you eat breakfast, you just know you're on the right track.
When you speak in the meeting at work, you feel rock-solid self-confidence.
This gives you the strength to empower and motivate your team.
You realize that you are in contact with a source of clarity and wisdom.
Without fear. Without stress.
Just the natural power.
Of you really being you.
This natural power comes from authentic self-leadership.
If you want to wake up clear, feel strong and enjoy the day > then this is the book for you.Â

Hello, I`m Randi the author. Learn more about me:



Visionary Female Leader
Randi is the only female change leader from Scandinavia who has followed aviation as an industry from duopoly to tough competition, led digital transformation, post mergers and integration of 2 companies, without legal conflict.
She closed a business during the financial crise and took personal financial loss. Took on a new executive change leadership role - delivered outstanding results in an exstraordinary situation for the company. Overworked. Took time to recover and refresh.
Later, she delivered outstanding results as a senior consultant and was rewarded as the employee of the year.
By walking the path, being in three careers, living the challenges - she emerged to teach, counsel and pass on her wisdom - to empower other leaders’ step into their potentials.Â
Randi climbed the corporate ladder to the top as an executive leader, leading turnaround with success at the age of 40.
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Impact Player & Joy Bringer
She has been leading herself, others, leaders, teams, function and post merge phase. At the top she was longing for more joy and fulfillment. By reengaging with her heart, she started out on a new expedition and adventure. Building and climbing ladders toward a new summit of meaning, fulfillment and joy. For her. On purpose. She managed to navigate through several challenges and storms. She learned to know the energy-world, dived deep into own human nature. Became a Master of Emotions. Led herself through personal transformation by releasing what was no longer serving her and realigned to new refreshing ambitions.Â
She found her way to Authentic Joyful Living. To Purposeful Leadership. To higher perspectives, greater clarity, new strength and ability to take quicker and better decisions. Effortlessly.
Randi became Wise-in-Love. She discovered a more sustainable path. Became a more authentic and dynamically balanced leader with greater clarity. Today she has lowered her shoulders and leads a start-up company with international ambitions.
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Get to know the author and the intentions behind the book:
- Randi helps us become comfortable in the driver's seat of "heart processes that strengthen the feminine in business".
- Randi believes that we all have something to clean up. That most of us lead from some form of addiction - we just need to discover what and why. For such a purpose, it helps to have an adventurous heart.
- Through story-telling, Randi brings a new form of comfort from a new, deeper self-confidence that she believes is available to everyone. Randi provides access to new insights in simple words.
- EXIT-to-Love shows the way for what is possible in faceing challenges. The book can thus give new strength and hope, be a kind of lantern in the dark for those who want change. Something else.
- Above all, this is a book about love, which inspires us back to what we love. A book that strengthens us in mastering and embracing several layers of love, and how we can get more out of life.
- This is the book Randi never planned to write. It is the book that Randi wanted to be written. Life gave Randi an important story to tell. Randi sees it as part of her life's mission to tell this story from her perspective.
- The author starts from angles, trends and tendencies for future working life inspired by studies from some of the largest consulting houses in the world.
- The book highlights the benefits of authentic, how we can take ourselves to the next level of authenticity. The book thus has a number of parallels to "Business book of the year" in Great Britain by Nicholas Janni "Leader as Healer". For 30 years, Janni has explored the theory and practice behind the best possible performance under flow conditions. EXIT-to-LOVE differentiates itself from this book by the author's style and form of expression in words and pictures.
- EXIT-to-LOVE is intended as a nutritious contribution and seeks to convey useful information in a simple and inspiring way. Like Janni, Randi Næss also brings perspectives on how we can activate our highest potentials through "engagement with our consciousnesses". You discover why Body Intelligence (BI), Heart Intelligence (HI) and Nature Intelligence (NI) are becoming more important to use as Artificial Intelligence (AI) grows.
- The book can easily be read in front of the fireplace in a good armchair, when traveling or wherever you are when you have some time. It is the author's intention that the book should provide nourishment to the reader, contribute to enriching life and business. Be a small contribution in the big global change project that the UN's sustainability goals represent.
- Randi shares in the book how she climbed her inner Month Everest. The trials she faced. Most were emotional trials. In this perspective, Randi sees it as part of her life mission to share what she has felt, feels and wants to feel. How she uses emotions to navigate her way through life.
- The book does not have an exact recipe for how to create a happy life, but can give you inspiration to raise awareness and realize your own goals. Randi practices storytelling from her own life, with the aim of reflecting something back to the reader. Where you find resonance, there is probably some insight or inspiration to be gained. Randi takes the reader on an emotional rollercoaster of trials and triumphs.
- The book is written by an change manager out of the ordinary. Randi is a former senior manager with several years of experience from  transformation of companies after acquisitions. With the ambition to become the change she wanted to see around her, she started a personal transformation process. She chose to become a brave leader of the new, rather than a good leader of the old. She sees this as taking an active role in a larger change project – giving the world a small push in the right direction. All change starts with ourselves, says Randi. If we want to create peace in the world, we must first find peace in our own heads, hearts and around us.
- The book makes you aware of the differences between "practicing living to work" vs "practicing working to live". It gives the reader the opportunity to reflect on their own practice - and whether a change might be appropriate.
- The book is written from a personal and global sustainability perspective. It supports 8 of the UN's Global Sustainability Goals + the 5 Internal Sustainability Goals. The book gives some friendly push behind for a more sustainable development to inspire politicians, managers and parents - yes, to all of us as citizens in a society where it should be good to live. Although it takes time to change a society, it is not an invitation to focus too unilaterally on the short-term and popular.
- Randi moves mountains with this book. Randi is a woman with a heart full of love, with clear boundaries and with a "spirit" like that of a mighty warrior. She is a visionary change leader with persistence, patience and drive to create solutions that drive change. One person may tell you that she has a beautiful soul, others may tell you that she is cold-hearted. Believe them both, she acts accordingly. If you challenge her trust, she is ready to go her own way. Randi is like a free bird, can be nice to look at but impossible to catch. “Love me or hate me! I will continue anyway. The amount of challenges has shaped Randi's character, her ethical and moral compass. She has a lot of love, great compassion and doesn't judge anyone. Rather think that we are all on a developmental journey back to love. It will change the world more than most people see and understand before reading this book.
- The author challenge and inspires key roles in politics, society and working life to take a stand on the extent to which we as a society are open to renewal of systems, structures and cultures. She questions whether we are ready for a more open talent economy.
- The book is a feminine sister to the book in "Change Management". How to become a sustainable change leader" which Randi published in autumn 2015 (Hegnar Media Forlag). In a relatively masculine working life and society, we need to strengthen the feminine. It will provide a healthier balance and dynamism, says Randi.
Discover how to create your adventurous development journey.
The message in this book underpins 8 of the UN's Global Sustainability Goals + the 5 Internal Sustainability Goals










